Thursday, April 7, 2011

The Laws of Attracting Someone

Spring is in the air, you are single, and want to attract the opposite sex. What do you do? You can either experiment and try different things or you can use the laws of attracting someone.

What are these laws? Here they are.

1) Physical Attractiveness: To increase your chances of attracting someone, you want to make yourself as physically attractive as possible. The means dressing your best and getting into good physical shape, not to mention maintaining good hygiene.

2) Exposure: Get out of your home as much as possible. You're never going to meet someone by being a hermit. Besides, exposure makes you sexy. The more others see you here and there, the more attracted they will be to you.

3) Similarity: You heard the saying "Birds of a feather flock together." This is very true. It helps to be in places where others dress like you, look like you, and have similar interests as you. If you are religious, go to church. If you love art, go to art shows. If you love psychology (I do), go to psychology symposiums. You get the picture.

4) Complimentary: Sometimes opposites attract. People may be attracted to you if you have something that they wish they had. For example, a shy woman may be attracted to an outgoing man, because she may wish to be more outgoing. Or a poor woman may be attracted to the thickness of a man's wallet. So try to be the best you possibly can so you may attract someone who wants to be you.

5) Exchange: Make it worthwhile for someone to hang out with you. Do interesting activities with them, have fun, joke around, be a good listener, be romantic, etc.

Now that you know the laws of attracting someone, go out there and get your mate!